What do you do when the person who hurts you is the one you’re meant to go to for help? At my first play party I went to, the DM put his kilt over my head and rubbed his naked crotch in my face while I was on a spanking bench, being spanked by a friend. She laughed, he laughed. Everyone laughed, a lot. I stayed silent, I didn’t know what to do. Now I’m too scared to go back and talk to my kinky friends again. I just wanted to tell someone. What was I supposed to do?
I would speak to the organizers of the venue or another DM if possible. That’s really awful that it happened to you! Frankly I would kick up a fuss and gather my friends around me to stand up with me. It’s scary out there alone.